Debt Dunk

I have written in the past on how it is so important to be as debt free as possible and be prepared for those bumps in the road of life. Well since those post, I have built a beautiful new house. In the process, I took a 15 years mortgage and added extra payments when I can. If you followed my other post, you know that I lived in old farm house which was in rough shape. This being said, I lived there until my wife and I could afford a nice house without putting our financial security on the line. I live what I write and I prepared for any possibility.

Well guess what? As life happens, we moved in our nice house, both of us had good jobs and the extra payments were tacking away at the mortgage. We was living the dream and feeling the joy. That was until the rug got pulled out from under us. I worked a ten month job during the school year and on the second day of the school year, I got the dreaded call. My job was being cut and I was being laid off in one of the worse job markets ever. I worked for a non profit and we knew it could be possible at some point but not quite this quick.

This could have wiped us out of we had bought our new house before we got our financial house in order. However, we are OK. I paid off almost everything we owed prior to buying the house. I prepared a budget that would allow us to live on one salary if needed. When my wife’s car was demolished in a car wreak, we paid cash for a used mini-van. The only debt we have is my student loan and the new mortgage. I was able to sell my old farmhouse with owner finance so we have a little income from that coming in. Everything else we pay cash for. Would I like to have another good paying job? Yes, that would be great. Before the lay off, we were on track to have our house paid off in 7 years. However, we are still living good. We have a nice house, reliable (not fancy) automobiles, and food on the table. We have a little entertainment money and good family and friends. This could not have been possible without one thing!

Getting your financial house in order is the biggest key to surviving a disaster. Do you really need a brand new car with big payments? Do you need a new house or can you wait until you can afford it? Is that credit really a need or is it a stone weighing you down? How many homeless people have you personal heard about because of a sudden job loss? Are you prepared?

I have done some stupid things with money in the past. I tell everyone that if I knew then what I know now, I would be much better off. We can not turn back time, forget about the past! It is time for you to live in the now and this is where you start. If you are overwhelmed and think there is no way out, there is! You need to first sit down and do a budget. It can be very basic but you need to know where your money is going. Most people have learned that we deserve the good life and we deserve it now. You know, we do deserve it, however; we need to be able to afford it first.

Start right now by sitting down and looking at what comes in and what goes out. Food, shelter, transportation, power, and heat are first out. Then you need to see what is left and start paying down your debt. If you can’t afford that big car payment, you should not have that car. Buy a beater until you can upgrade. Cars and trucks are what of the biggest traps of buying new. They appreciate the minute you drive off the lot and lose most of the value with in two years. I drive an eleven year old SUV. It gets me from point A to point B. Is it beautiful? Nope, it has rust, a dent, A/C doesn’t work, and it squeaks like crazy. Would I like a brand new truck? Of course I would but not at the cost of the stress involved in the extra payments and the fear of financial ruin.

Look at your life, see where you have done stupid things with money and start fixing it. You are not alone, millions of people share your fate. Does that make you feel better? I hope not! I want you to be above that. I want you to take hold of your finances and rise above. Start now and start with a basic budget. I am here to answer any questions if you need help. I am still fixing one mistake; a student loan. However, the others are gone and a valuable lesson was learned. I paid all my debt, screwed no one including the credit card blood suckers and I am in a position to survive a major life downturn. My hope is that you too can get in that position.

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I have heard in the past where if you are prudent with your money, you will attract more money. My wife and I have noticed this since we have started to really stick to a budget. Honestly, we have always had the money coming in but now we have a set budget we can put any extra coming in can go toward debt.

We seem to be getting a lot of extra income coming from new sources that we did not have before. This makes us feel wealthier now because before we would have found things to spend it on. Being on a reasonable budget makes it easier to apply any raises and extras to debt instead of extra spending.

This is a great way to live and if you decide to follow a plan like ours, you too will see life looking better. It will look like money is coming to you instead of you seeking money. You will start to be a money magnet. As you pay off your debt, things will start to look better. You may not fit in with your free spending coworkers and friends but someday, you will be free spending with honest cash. It is no longer about keeping up with the broke people who live paycheck to paycheck. This is a new way of living that will take you to a whole new level in life.

You do not have to live as a debtor your whole life to have the things you want. Yes, you may have to skip a few fancy restaurant dinners and a few extra trips to Starbucks; however, you will have a future of anything you want if you get out and stay out of debt. Can you imagine a life where you pay yourself instead paying creditors? Life would be easier with less stress.

This can be done and as you progress, you will see what we have, money will come to you. Be prudent and smart about your finances now! Sit down now and get a budget written out. Make sure every dollar you make is written down along with all expenses. Be honest with what you need and allow a little fun. If you get on a plan and stick to it, you will stop being one of those people waiting for the paycheck to save you and then run out of money way before your next pay.

Start now no matter where you are at or how old you are. When you get done reading this, sit down by yourself if single, with your wife if married, and your whole family if you have kids and write out your budget. If you have questions or need help, I will be happy to guide you with any help I can.

The economy is tough and for a while I have been trying to find a source of increasing my income. My current job is basically per Diem or when needed. I have not had any work for about a month. The good news is, my job just picked up to the point that I will have a descent salary for at least a few months. This brings me to a good point when paying off debt.

I have talked about the two equations of a budget. One is the income side and the other is is the expense side. If expense out weighs the income, you are in trouble and either have to cut expenses or increase income. In a weak economy it is harder but not impossible to increase your income.

The most simplest form of increasing your income is to get a better job with higher pay. This is easy if you have the skills and are in a an area where the job market is booming. I for one am not in that type of area. The next method is to take on an additional job. You could deliver pizza, wait tables, work fast food, or any other job that will boost your income. This is not always desired but you have to look that it is to get rid of your debt so it should only be short term. It will boost your debt paying and get you out of debt faster.

If either changing jobs or getting a better job is not an option, it is time to look at alternative ways to make extra money. With the Internet, it is easier than ever. Many people have found a lot of stuff in their basement, attic, or garage and have made a few thousand dollars selling them on eBay. You could also have a yard sale or find a resale shop that will buy the stuff or sell it on consignment. This is short term income but it could be a quick reduction in your debt.

Once you have done the above, you can look at the various at home ways of earning money. If you have good typing skills, there are doctor offices and medical companies that pay you to do medical related transcripts and billing. If you are a good writer, you could find freelance jobs on the Internet to earn extra income. Some companies people to do customer service work from home. These are just a few suggestions to up your income at home, there are many more. Just be careful not to fall for scams and never pay someone to work for them.

One way my wife and I use to earn extra money was to do mystery shops. Many of these companies reimburse you to eat at nice restaurants and also throw in a few dollars to cover your expenses. Though this is not big cash, it does give you free meals, and products with just a little bit of time. When we lived in a bigger area, we were going out once a week to steak houses and having $40 meals and we got reimbursed for filling out a survey about how the place looked and how the staff performed. It sure did help with the budget. As I advised for the home work stuff, never pay to do these types of shops. If you have pay a fee, it is scam and all you are buying is a list of sites you can find on your own.

The final way I will mention is bartering for things you need. Even though this is not cash, you will get something of value which you would buy otherwise with your income. If someone else has something you need, find something that you can do to get it for free. I have exchanged many things before to get things I need. These could be skill work or physical products. Anything you can get for free that is moral and not against any law is a good thing.

The ways I mention here are just suggestions to get your mind working. Increasing your income is a great way to speed up your debt payoff. However, be aware that it will not help if you continue to use credit cards and just increase your expenses to meet your new income. The main key is to spend less than you make and pay off your debt as soon as you can.

Have a great way that you have increased your income? Please share by leasing a comment to help or inspire others.

Holidays can be a big strain on a budget. We all want to buy the best for are families. It is a time when money seems less important than buying gifts for everyone we know. However, it is one of the biggest times of the year to prove that you have changed your spending habits.

If you do not have the money saved up for Christmas, it is time that reality will slap you in the face. This is not the time to run to Bank of America or Capitol One. If you have to buy your kid a $20 gift instead of that $100 video game, guess what? You kid will have to learn to enjoy that $20 gift. The important thing is that you are working on getting out of debt.

My wife and I set a budget of $300 for everyone this year. This included my mother, her parents, some nieces and nephews, her two brothers, and us. We stuck pretty close to the budget except we went a little over for unexpected gifts that arose where people needed a helping hand. However, we paid cash for everything and we spent a lot of time online earning free gift cards and such to add a little extra to the mix. We also cut a little out of our regular monthly budget to cover the overage. The key factor is, we stayed with in our means and paid cash for everything.

It is not a good thing to wake up in January wondering how you are going to pay for the gifts that you bought in December. Christmas is a time for sharing, caring and giving. It is not the time to spend till you drop and sink your family’s finances. You will start to enjoy the holidays again when debt is wiped out and you will not have to struggle all year to pay for the gifts.

Unless you are a multimillionaire or the United States Government, you must live within the boundaries of what you earn. If you do not, at some point, the creditors will come knocking and you will lose sleep and the financial security you and your family needs. Once you are debt free, you can put a little more towards Christmas and holiday gifts. Until that point, spend as little as possible and stay within your budget and you will start to put the joy back in the holidays.

Merry Christmas to Your Families and may you spend your New Year cutting up credit cards and dunking your debt!

Debt free does not mean dishonest. You made the mistakes and it is your job to fix it. If you honestly borrowed the money, you should do everything you can to pay it back. However, there are times that it may not be possible at the moment so you need to prioritize your finances.

The first key is to take care of your basic needs. These include eating, shelter, transportation, and household needs. I am talking about needs! This does not include the top brand steak, cigarettes, and other wants. You should feed you and your family on what you can afford. If you are deep in debt, you can not afford New York Strip and other more luxury items. Once you cover your basic needs, it is then time to tackle your debt.

There are many schools of thought when it comes to debt. The best plan I have found is Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps. You save up a $1000 for emergencies and then start paying off debt from smallest to largest while paying minimum on the rest. If you do not have enough income left over to pay even minimum, you need to find ways to earn extra money or stop paying.

If your income is too low at the time, I would pay the secured debts first and stop paying the credit cards and other unsecured until you can get your income up or sell something to free up money. You can come back later and settle with the credit card companies. If you can afford, pay everyone now!

You need to have a clearly written budget laying out where all your money is going. Income and expenses should be equal. If you have more expenses than income, sell something, get a second job, or lower your expenses. You need to live with in your income or change something. Many people, including me, realize that you have more money than you think if you write it all down and stick to a budget.

The key is, nobody is going to fix you debt mess for you. You borrowed the money and you went into debt. It was partially the fault of the leeches who feed on society by pushing easy credit. However, you and I made our own debt bed. It is up to you to tackle it with all the energy you can muster in order to clear up and dunk all the debt. Cut up the credit cards, borrow nothing else, and pay off what you owe as quickly as possible. I am in the boat with you and I know it is tough but it can be done.

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