You are Responsible For Your Debt
Debt free does not mean dishonest. You made the mistakes and it is your job to fix it. If you honestly borrowed the money, you should do everything you can to pay it back. However, there are times that it may not be possible at the moment so you need to prioritize your finances.
The first key is to take care of your basic needs. These include eating, shelter, transportation, and household needs. I am talking about needs! This does not include the top brand steak, cigarettes, and other wants. You should feed you and your family on what you can afford. If you are deep in debt, you can not afford New York Strip and other more luxury items. Once you cover your basic needs, it is then time to tackle your debt.
There are many schools of thought when it comes to debt. The best plan I have found is Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps. You save up a $1000 for emergencies and then start paying off debt from smallest to largest while paying minimum on the rest. If you do not have enough income left over to pay even minimum, you need to find ways to earn extra money or stop paying.
If your income is too low at the time, I would pay the secured debts first and stop paying the credit cards and other unsecured until you can get your income up or sell something to free up money. You can come back later and settle with the credit card companies. If you can afford, pay everyone now!
You need to have a clearly written budget laying out where all your money is going. Income and expenses should be equal. If you have more expenses than income, sell something, get a second job, or lower your expenses. You need to live with in your income or change something. Many people, including me, realize that you have more money than you think if you write it all down and stick to a budget.
The key is, nobody is going to fix you debt mess for you. You borrowed the money and you went into debt. It was partially the fault of the leeches who feed on society by pushing easy credit. However, you and I made our own debt bed. It is up to you to tackle it with all the energy you can muster in order to clear up and dunk all the debt. Cut up the credit cards, borrow nothing else, and pay off what you owe as quickly as possible. I am in the boat with you and I know it is tough but it can be done.
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